Dating While Disabled: Humor, Challenges, and Breaking Stereotypes
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Nicolas Comstock

Dating While Disabled: Humor, Challenges, and Breaking Stereotypes

S1 E70 • Dec 23, 2025 • 45 mins

In this episode, Nicolas Comstock delves into the world of dating and disability, starting with a holiday greeting. He shares personal experiences and examines how Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) culture affects views on dating with a disability. With humor, Nicolas encourages able-bodied listeners to consider dating disabled individuals, sharing family anecdotes to highlight the importance of inclusivity. He explores mixed-ability relationships, public displays of affection, and financial aspects. Nicolas humorously navigates dating apps, warns about online scams, and invites community feedback, wrapping up with holiday wishes.

Key Points

  • Societal misconceptions and fears about the logistics of dating someone with a disability often prevent able-bodied individuals from giving these relationships a chance.
  • People with disabilities often face undue assumptions about their financial and emotional capabilities, which can undermine their opportunities for romantic relationships.
  • Interabled relationships can offer deeply loving and fulfilling connections, but societal biases and practical concerns about caregiving roles and physical intimacy often create significant barriers.
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